Life is a Gift

When I was told that my disease had progressed to its final stage, it was like a wakeup call for me and a time to reevaluate my priorities. It wasn’t so much that I became depressed and sad; instead, I had a desire to make the best out of the time I had left. Who knows how long that will be? I have no control over it, but I have total control over how I want to live and feel. A proverb came to mind:

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often
we look so long at the closed door that we do not see
the one which has been opened for us.”
Helen Keller

I didn’t want to miss the new door that was opening for me, although it would have been easy to stare at the closed door with regrets and longing. I could have stopped there and focused on what I have lost. Instead, I decided to fill my life with happiness and joy. I saw the open door, the infinite possibilities remaining for me, and I felt gratitude. Yes, there are things which will remain undone in my life, but they are in the past, and I have decided to live in the present.

Life is a gift we often take for granted and consider it as an entitlement. It feels like life is a given until it is snapped away. But nothing and no one can take away my joy for living and my desire to be happy. I will live the remainder of my life in joy, and every day will be filled with happiness and laughter.

I wanted to share this because I am repeatedly asked how I manage to remain so positive. How couldn’t I be? I have time left to enjoy my husband, Romeo our little Yorkie, my dear friends, and finishing my book. I have lived an exciting life, and now it is time to enjoy the smaller and simpler things. I still have much to live and to be grateful for, and there is no space in my mind for sadness.

When I saw the snow this week – yes, here in Tucson – I remembered when we lived in snow country with snow storms and such massive accumulations that we had to hire roof sweepers to save the roof. I recall snowmobiling in Yellowstone Park, skiing when I was younger, bringing food into the woods for deer, elk, and other animals, and I could go on. I am grateful for such adventures.

Life is a gift to be cherished and lived to the fullest. Remember the closing door and don’t hang on to it with memories and regrets. It will not open again, but a new one will, and you will have ample opportunities to live a joyful life. It is all up to you!

Silvia Coggin, CPC
Author and Founder of




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8 Responses to “Life is a Gift”

  1. Heide

    such a good blog, we should all live by that motto and I am trying to do that (most of the time). Continue with your positive outlook! Hugs……

  2. Robert Oro

    Your energy amazes me.
    When I saw you last week you looked fabulous. Your spirit was glowing.
    I keep thinking that I really get your wisdom about being positive but I fall back many times.
    Yes it is a decision to make the most out of the time we have let on this earth.
    It is folks like you that make other’s lives much more tranquil.
    Thanks for sharing! I promise to try and remember your words when I start down the “rabbit hole.”
    Hi to Steve.
    Love you guys,
    Enjoy the Journey,
    Bob and Debbie

  3. Silvia Coggin

    You are too kind, Bob. It was such a pleasure seeing you last week, and you and Deb make a dentist visit a delight. I feel blessed knowing you and having you in my life.


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